It’s a Lot to Unpack

What readers are saying

“Honour writes with quick wit and bruised candor about her rocky first few months in Cyprus, during which she moped and struggled to adapt to the relaxed pace of life. Then, with equal panache, Honour illustrates how, as her husband’s work whisked them to Copenhagen and then Berlin, she learned to extricate her self-worth from being a “New Yorker” or an “expat,”… This will resonate with anyone who’s had to redefine themselves under unexpected circumstances.”

— Publisher’s Weekly

Rating: 5 out of 5.

“Oh what a book! I devoured every word, every page and every chapter within a few days.
She writes with wisdom, humour and perfectly measured sharpness resulting in a truly clever memoir that had me laughing out loud and clapping my hands in admiration for a writer that tells it like it is and does a brilliant job in doing so.

— Keri Bloomfield, author of Nothing Like a Dane

Rating: 5 out of 5.

“…woah!—just as her own insecure, stuck and clearly not quite-there-yet expat persona dusted herself off and found her stride, the already beautiful writing became fierce and poignant, whimsical and funny, and I ended up highlighting half of the book.”

— Stephanie X Cook, author of Transcontinental Overload

Our expatriate journey started in Nicosia, Cyprus, the world’s last divided capital. Fifteen years later we landed in Berlin, another famously divided city.


Walking through the gritty urban landscape, reminiscent of late 80s NYC, it was impossible to escape the idea of walls. The reminders were everywhere I turned. And so the theme of separation started to haunt me, and by default, my writing. What started out as another compilation of observational essays turned into something more introspective and ultimately cathartic. This is a book about beginnings, endings, but most of all, all the living and learning we do in the middle bits.

I’m so excited to share this book with you. It is the story of our lives abroad, but it is also the story of my journey, the one to find the woman I packed away in New York all those years ago.


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